Thank you for the concrete examples, very helpful in understanding the concept better. As I apply these thoughts to the polarities I am struggling with in life currently, I can feel the resistance to step outside my side of the polarity. I think the resistance comes from the disconnection I feel from others when I step outside polarity - everyone wants to me to take a stand or choose a side, and when I do not or pose questions for them to consider stepping outside the polarity, they back away from me and the discussion. And then I feel alone. What to do about this, I wonder?