Birju - Even your act of kindness in writing this article is a gift in itself. It seems to me that you found the words to express clearly, the thoughts that have been swirling in my mind about this topic. I could quote passages, but would end up copy+pasting your entire post :) I know that I will re-visit and keep learning from this post. Thank you - I accept your gift in the spirit that you offered it, and put no binding expectations on myself as to what transformation that it would bring within me. Let it emerge!