And afterwards? Each back to his/her usual life, albeit with some valuable lessons? If we do feel like family, what are we eager to do for our new family members? For me it's amazing how people don't connect very deeply; they take others as a source of powerful emotional experience and then move on ("Bye. That was lovely, thanks. See you again maybe ... which may be the healthy thing -- I, for one, am so open-hearted with and concerned for everyone, that it would be valuable to learn how not to connect so deeply with so many in order to end up more tranquil inside.)