I think it will become 'unconscious', I began talking to people on trains and buses, in the street, to connect and at first it was a conscious act. But now I just do it, and the stories unfold, the sharing of lives, sometimes the rebuffs but these are seldom. It gets easier. I can't sit easily in meditation, my hips are worn out, my back is damaged, but that is how it is, and I have a lot of props to support me. It's ok.