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Quote of the Week
"Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible." --Dalai Lama
How To Teach Our Kids Not To Hate Despite All The Hate They're Exposed To This Election Cycle
"It takes very little effort for a child to learn to hate. It’s the status quo, after all, according to the often-repeated phrases “girls can be mean” or “boys will be boys,” usually accompanied by a shrug implying “that’s just how it is.” Teaching kids to not hate is much harder. It takes effort, and work. Family doctor and parenting expert Deborah Gilboa says many people assume that children learn hate and racism and xenophobia at home, but that’s not always the case.
“Young children and cautious children often have an inherent distrust of that which they don’t recognize as familiar — people, and also food, activities and so on. As parents, it’s our job to help our children respect others and learn to see differences as interesting, not scary,” says Gilboa. “We have to teach our kids to avoid sweeping generalizations about people — by gender, by religion, by culture, by race.” Read more for some suggestions how to overcome negativity and hate.
Reading Corner
 Title: Shine
By: Lauren Myracle
Ages: 14 and up
Why: "When her best guy friend falls victim to a vicious hate crime, sixteen-year-old Cat sets out to discover who in her small town did it. Richly atmospheric, this daring mystery mines the secrets of a tightly knit Southern community and examines the strength of will it takes to go against everyone you know in the name of justice. Against a backdrop of poverty, clannishness, drugs, and intolerance, Myracle has crafted a harrowing coming-of-age tale couched in a deeply intelligent mystery. Smart, fearless, and compassionate, this is an unforgettable work from a beloved author. "Cat eventually uncovers the truth in a cliffhanging climax in which she confronts fear, discovers that love is stronger than hate and truly ˜shines.' Raw, realistic and compelling." -- Kirkus Reviews
Recommended by Cubs Editors
Be The Change
Talk to your child about the hard issues they are seeing in the news and may be confronting themselves dealing with hate and intolerance. Show compassion to them and to others as you discuss these emotional issues. Model tolerance and kindness as you continue to reach out together to others.
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